How to Fall In Love - Again?

Here's exactly what to do to fall in love again and again.

Feel Closer

To feel detached when things are not going in accordance is the natural tendency. Since "love" is a verb, "when you lead with action, your heart tends to follow," says Seth J. Gillihan, PhD, a psychologist in Philadelphia.
Do something for each other, be it a simple lunch or tea, make your partner feel that importance. These simple gestures propagate closeness. Doing so reminds you that this person is important to you—and seeing their "Aww face" reaction will likely make you feel all giddy again. We’re tricked into believing real love is all about romance and grand gestures, that it’s about strong, passionate feelings that move you into doing things you never saw yourself doing before.

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Discuss anything and everything

Just don't scratch the surface. Like discussing haircuts or dresses or about coworkers. In a relationship, conversations can range from this to anywhere, but being able to calmly talk about what you feel inside out, what is bothering you in a relationship is a precious gift. It goes beyond just being able to blurt out your unfiltered thoughts, in fact, it isn’t even about blurting out anything. It is about feeling safe and accepted. Articulating troubles is an art, as a couple one must know how to listen to each other.

Respect Individual Space

Spending quality time together is surely adorable stuff, but respecting each other's space isn't any lesser than that. Being alone with oneself is an essential human need. It is the time spent on self-improvement, it makes you indulge in some healthy activities. It makes you miss each other more and you can gladly appreciate each other's company. When couples manage to respect each other’s need for alone time, neither being clingy or needy, it naturally reduces the moments of despair. 

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Care or No Care

When we live with someone for a longer period of time, we tend to decide for them. Like whether he will eat this or she will not wear this. We did not realize when the feeling of being concerned overtook by possession, it annoys!! Personal space is the key to resolve issues of minding each other’s business all the time. When couples are able to respect each other’s personal space, the relationship grows stronger because it means that anything that’s done is done voluntarily, and that makes all the difference. 

Be Silly

Have a silly time together. It is super important for people to kick start and have a goofy time. Couples who laugh together often have happier relationships and stay together for a longer haul. Poke fun and get less annoyed, keep things light, let the crazy atmosphere prevail. Have a chit chat session and loosen up.

List your Dependency

In a way or the other, we are dependent on our partners unknowingly. Being in an anguished state over a fight is pretty normal, listing dependencies may sound weird, Reminding yourself of every asset your partner has added to your life will make you appreciate all the time you've had together and feel newly excited about all the good times that are still to come.

Reminding yourself of every strength and asset your better half has added to your life will make you appreciate each other more. Appreciate the time that you have spent together, feel loved, you never know what turns and twists life can take. In a relationship, there will be hard times and disagreements one can overcome these obstacles with dialog and respect. Nurture this sacred relationship, don't let it wither or die.